One category of people i literally care not for are assholes who judge other peoples hobbies like they’re the end all be all of how people should act.

No longer? Im in my early 30s and have never been able to take a vacation since I’ve been on my own/with my wife. Between bills and rising prices, and my job combining pto and sick time, i dont have time or money to do anything more than a day trip to someplace not that far away.