• Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    If someone needs my help and is hanging out with me and doesn’t ask me for help, how am I supposed to know?

    It seems to me this is more about dehumanizing rich people to justify hatred

    OH NO!

    Poor rich people! They have it so hard!

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      1 year ago

      If someone needs my help and is hanging out with me and doesn’t ask me for help, how am I supposed to know?

      That’s the whole point. You aren’t. You’ve just been alerted to this asocial behavior being a sign of someone suffering, so you ask. You just want to assume they are a bad person not worthy of friendship.

      Poor rich people! They have it so hard!

      Do you honestly need it to be explained that rich people can suffer from mental and emotional problems as well? Taking that away from them is just blatant dehumanization.

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        1 year ago

        Well, if they don’t pay attention to me saying “let me know if you need any help,” then, again, they’re not a very good friend. I can’t help it if they don’t care enough about what I’ve told them to just ask me for help. If they asked me for money, again, I wouldn’t think “they need help.” I get that you would, but I wouldn’t.

        And sure, rich people can suffer from mental and emotional problems. They also can afford a therapist.

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          1 year ago

          I’m not sure what to say, it’s been pointed out that this is kind of like a cry for help, and you still insist on holding it against them. I guess we’re still squarely in the time if people seeing mental health issues as personality flaws.

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              1 year ago

              I wouldn’t have known that without reading this article, would I? Which was my point.

              I originally responded to you claiming it was “just shitty behavior.” Are you telling me you had read the article at that point?