I’m so torn about tipping culture, on the one hand it’s bosses not paying workers as much as they deserve, on the other hand it’s one job where workers can earn better than the cost of living doing a low skilled job. I also fully believe that anywhere there is a tip jar that gets pooled between workers there’s someone in management skimming off the top.

Thanks! It’s a healing journey not a destination type of thing.

I weighed 207 pounds when I was 7, I wish CPS had gotten involved