• Katana314@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    The true path of faking it till you make it isn’t to gain a significant other, but to become emotionally settled enough that you don’t even need one.

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        9 months ago

        Then explain this

        Why is it that Boys go to college to get more knowledge While Girls go to Jupiter cause they are stupider

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          9 months ago

          well clearly you havent been to jupiter or college because everybody knows its boys that go to jupiter to get more stupider while girls go to college to do cool girl shit like breathing.

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    9 months ago

    Every guy: shit it’s so difficult to find sex, love, companionship, or any of the above, it’s actually depressing

    Every girl: just be yourself lol idk all that stuff just naturally is available to me

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      9 months ago

      It’s been a couple decades since I heard anyone say “just be yourself” as a message for how to take someone to bed. From a practical standpoint, either find a professional to employ, or hit the bar scene and don’t give up, and you’ll probably meet success.

      Another piece of advice, if you’re not only looking for sex, is to try to do things that will make you a better version of yourself 2 years from now. Whether that’s going to the gym or volunteering or getting a part-time job or walking the dog more, whatever it is, that’s something everyone can decide for themselves.

      I think everyone knows that if you aren’t getting action now, and you keep doing the same things tomorrow, you probably won’t get any action then either. But this all gets conflated when people mix sex and love together, when they really want one of the two but won’t bother to tell us which one.

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        9 months ago

        Hell, I AM just looking for sex and I’m still trying to improve myself. It’s just a good thing to do in general.