• Flying Squid@lemmy.worldOP
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    3 months ago

    Unfortunately, it was formed from a prayer group, and as much as some of my fellow atheists have told me that you can be an atheist and a 12-stepper (and maybe they can deal with the cognitive dissonance), there is just no legitimately non-religious interpretation of step 11. The whole “anything can be your higher power” concept I’ve been told by those atheists simply cannot conform to step 11:

    Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

    You substitute “God” with pretty much anything non-deistic and that sentence simply does not rationally work.

    I’ve always suspected that the biggest reason 12-step programs like AA do work for some people is that it’s a form of group therapy.

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      3 months ago

      You can substitute for the universe, the program and people in it, or nature and I’d say it still works. Just how you frame prayer or meditation. One of the definitions of prayer is a solemn request. The purpose of having “God” in the 12 steps is to have a belief in something “greater” than yourself. To me the group of alcoholics who got me sober is something “greater” than myself because I truly couldn’t do it alone. The prayer and meditation can just be used almost as a manifesting of intention. If I pray that I be more tolerant patient and kind to those around me, than that’s more likely to be on my mind whether I’m intentionally sending that prayer to a deity, the universe, nature, or the idea of the group as a whole. I say this as a 12 stepper myself that is non religious. That being said a lot of people use God or a deity as a higher power, but just saying it’s certainly not a requirement.

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        3 months ago

        No. You can’t. Because those make no sense when you rewrite it.

        Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with the universe as we understood it, praying only for knowledge of its will for us and the power to carry that out.

        The universe only has a will if you’re not an atheist.

        Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with the program and people in it as we understood them, praying only for knowledge of their will for us and the power to carry that out.

        This only makes sense if you think praying to a group will make them force you to do something. Which is nonsense.

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      3 months ago

      It’s simpler than all that. Satanists would say God is just You, or some version of yourself that is all the things you wish you could be. The fact that you are there praying means you have a good idea of what needs to change, and are searching for the strength within yourself.

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        3 months ago

        As I said, that makes it irrational. People like you say that, but when it actually comes to rewriting it, it makes no sense at all:

        Sought through prayer and meditation to improve my conscious contact with me as I understand myself, praying only for knowledge of my will for me and the power to carry that out.

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          3 months ago

          Dunno what you’re on about, makes complete sense to me. Just requires some mental flexibility.

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              3 months ago

              It takes conscious effort to be in touch with your deeper thoughts and emotions, so in a sense yes. Not everything that is known to the self is known to the conscious mind. Didn’t think that would be controversial.

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                3 months ago

                “In a sense.” i.e. you have to make some really convoluted interpretations to make it work.

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                  3 months ago

                  It’s fine that you don’t understand. I know plenty of non-religious people who were able to find their own meaning in those words