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    The data available shows hitting kids does absolutely nothing to increase desired behaviors and in many cases is linked to increase in unwanted behaviors.

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    Heres my argument against hitting kids. Mississippi loves it, cant get enough of it. Every ailment of society is caused by kids not getting hit enough, and they wear their past of childhood violence as their biggest badge of honor. Hitting kids is how you get Mississippians.

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    I was threatened with spanking once in the 9th grade.

    I told the principal that it would take more than him to do it. He called my dad. Dad laughed in his face and told him to try me on. Then hung up.

    I ended up with a week of ISS.

    INB4: I know this sounds like a greentext. I’ve been telling this story for 20 fkin years.

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      Ahhh ISS. The truest of punishments. We had to help the janitors as part of ISS. Good luck catching up on missed schoolwork at home despite being in school all day, all while watching your friends have fun while you empty the next trash can.

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    Good job. Keep making conservatives actively confront their weird, inhumane, hateful bullshit on its face.

    The gop is the party of hungry, beaten kids, sitting in understaffed schools, without schoolbooks, and distracted by construction noise from the publicly funded ten commandments statue going up near the school entrance between the active shooter drills. They sit there, nodding off and tired from working a double at the Tyson chichen slaughterhouse the night before.

    And never forget, matt gaetz is sitting in the parking lot waiting to offer your kids a ride after school…

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      “would you like a ride to another state where it’s legal for me to do you?”

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    We had “optional” corporal punishment.

    You could choose swats with a paddle, or writing sentences over and over.

    Most people took swats, but I just picked sentences and never did them. They’d double the amount a couple times and eventually stop asking for them.

    But absolutely zero boys gave a shit about taking swats, it was no deterrent what so ever. Even knowing that there was an easy way out of the alternative, they’d just take swats and immediately forget it happened.

    If anything it made behavior worse, because they could do whatever and then have a few seconds of discomfort later if and only if they were caught doing the bad thing.

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      But absolutely zero boys gave a shit about taking swats

      Great time to remind everyone that the adult men who administer corporal punishment in schools do in fact take great pleasure in spanking teenage girls, and that girls opt-out of it more than boys because they know it will border on sexual assault.

      Girls have a higher pain tolerance than boys. They just know the horrific implications of being alone in a room with an older man who has authority and permission to use violence.

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        Oh yeah, I think girls didn’t even have the option.

        I dont know if the girls gym teacher just wouldn’t do it, or if none of them picked it, but none of them got swats.

        But almost every gym class there was a line of boys waiting.

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        At my school, the principal wasn’t allowed to paddle girls. Only boys.

        I don’t know who made that rule but I can imagine why.

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    But but but . . . hitting solves problems!

    Just ask the guy who invented it . . . Hitler.

    (I’ll show myself out)

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    I went to a small rural school for a year when I was in elementary. The music teacher head paddle he’d use when it was your birthday. Wanna know the really fucked up part about it all? His paddle has holes drilled into it.

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    So we’re getting a throwback to 1973 news articles… Wait there were still places outside of backwards ass Pender County, NC that did this shit?

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    It’s CHILD ABUSE!

    To not allow TEACHERS to SPANK KIDS! I’m a Republican trying to Protect The Children!

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      I’m sure whatever country you’re from has fully rejected out-of-date ideas.

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    There was a time when corporal punishment was actively encouraged - Spare the rod and spoil the child.

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      Yes, in the iron age when that book you’re quoting from was written. They also believed in reading bird entrails to tell the future and bleeding people in order to cure their illnesses.

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    This issue is one of the only debates in the world that I don’t have a strong stance about. How the hell do you balance the fact that the kids are evil little (or large) monsters in desperate need of discipline with the fact that the ones passing judgement on them are no better?

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      Teaching a child “I will hurt you if you don’t do what I want” is called bullying. That’s why we stop children doing it to other children.

      It teaches them nothing but to fear you and possibly to pass that idea that children should fear their parents on to their own children.

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    In school and 99% of scenarios, physicality doesn’t do any good. But if you have a really young child, like 3-5, and they hurt another child or an animal and show no remorse, I think spanking is acceptable as a punishment immediately after the incident. They might have trouble with developing empathy and need to understand they hurt another being.

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      In school and 99% of scenarios, physicality doesn’t do any good. But if you have a really young child, like 3-5…

      You think violence against children is only acceptable if you’re beating a toddler? That’s a really weird conclusion to reach…

      I think spanking is acceptable as a punishment immediately after the incident.

      Because you’re a shit parent who doesn’t know how to raise a child without resorting to violence. The evidence overwhelmingly shows that negative reinforcement is the worst way to discipline a child. If you think it works, you’re wrong.

      They might have trouble with developing empathy and need to understand they hurt another being.

      You’re teaching them, by example, to use violence. You’re the parent. Be a role model. How can you possibly think you can use violence to teach that violence is wrong?

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