• Caveman@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    So many people have thought I was gay I went into introspection. Turns out I’m very straight.

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      6 months ago

      For some reason lots of women think I’m gay too, even when I had a woman friend wingman for me. I’m self sufficient, reasonably clean, I dress nice (with help), and honestly a bit odd so I suppose that’s why they’d think that. Just like you though, I’m quite straight

      • defunct_punk@lemmy.world
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        6 months ago

        They weren’t calling ya gay because you dress nice and take care of yourself, it was that cock in yer ass

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          6 months ago

          Ah, I thought they wouldn’t be able to notice through my pants >.< next time I won’t wear something so tight!

    • AFK BRB Chocolate@lemmy.world
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      6 months ago

      I’m my late teens and early twenties, I had several occurrences of gay guys hitting on me, to the point where I started to worry that there was something about me. It seems funny to me now, but I really did have a period of wondering if I could be and was just repressing it because of my Catholic upbringing. But ultimately I realized that I just didn’t find guys attractive at all, and even the thought of kissing a guy was kind of a boner killer. So I get what you’re saying, even though on the surface it sounds funny to say you wondered if you could be gay.

      Sometime later I ended up with a couple of close gay friends, and I mentioned it to them. They said it was probably because I put out a very non-judgemental vibe and didn’t seem like a homophobe, so it probably didn’t seem risky to hit on me.