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      The title is garbage, but ADHD folk can have a lot of problems preparing food, even ordering food.

      Having an option if all else fails is a lifesaver (getting regular-ish nutrition & not starving for a couple of days at a time - not a short term issue, but the psychological effects can compound over time … this is also the segue/mechanic why so many adhd ppl develop persistent depression).

      Edit: to clarity - with delivery I just meant

      Having an option if all else fails

      An option some ADHD peeps can use, 100% not an option developed to help with ADHD fuckery.

      I hate third-party delivery services, those are just exploiting workers & act monopolistic when it comes to fees they change to the restaurants.

      I go get my own food, but it still happens that I can’t leave my apparent sometimes so I assumed this does help some people.

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        I appreciate where you’re coming from, but understand this is a very personal issue for me. I’ve been dealing with it for the majority of my life.

        I’m not going to challenge the specific merits of food delivery. But everyone deals with their disorder in their own way. For example, I solve this issue by simply living next to a grocery store in a walkable area. It’s something I’ve worked towards over time.

        What infuriates me is someone trying to code something as “ADHD-adjacent” - and in this case, pass it off as though exploitative gig service delivery apps are some kind of accessibility measure. We are particularly susceptible to the weapons of the information age, which has engineered easy dopamine hits within the reach of our fingers at all times. They are NOT there to make our lives better. They are there to exploit, profit, and manipulate.

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          Oh, yeah, for sure, the garbage (0-sense) title is screaming monetisation of all the things for a few clicks.

          I too resolved a lot of my food issues by having stores in the same building I live (and nice restaurants in the 1 to 5 minute walk where I can skip the delivery & go get it myself).

          With delivery I just meant

          Having an option if all else fails

          An option some ADHD peeps can use, 100% not an option developed to help with ADHD fuckery.

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        I feel seen

        Other delivery options help or like pre-ordering pickup on apps have saved my life, but there was a span where I was living on delivery because I couldn’t shop…still kind of can’t figure out what my ‘easy’ foods can be that are also not gonna make my heart hurt.

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          Honest advice: find something you can do with canned beans and something you can do with boxed pasta.

          My easy meals are bean tacos and “fuck it pasta” (uses jarred sauce). They’re easy, fine for me, and taste good enough

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    … they deliver food in old city centres like this al the same, they just use bikes or mopeds.

    Also non-car food delivery is better, especially during rush hours.

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    I have pretty severe ADHD and I fucking hate food delivery service apps. What is this post even trying to say?

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      Literally nothing.

      Shitty people will associate ANY impulsive decision with ADHD because they get all their mental health information from short-form content.

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      With ADHD, you can suddenly be depleted of energy, not have the motivation to cook, or simply forget to eat. When you get hungry you can go ," Ah whatever I’ll order delivery"

      NOW. It may be more prominent in ADHD folk, as myself, but it is not just an ADHD folk issue. This person is just making ADHD their entire personality, and pointing fingers at things they don’t like.

      Also, I’m almost positive that Madrid( is this Madrid?)has food delivery services.

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      Most modern US towns were basically founded about or after the time cars were invented. Or at least have experienced the vast amount of it’s growth since the car was invented. So stores and shops, courthouses, post offices, etc have just been built all over the place.

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      Many(most?) older towns did have a town square, many still do in various forms. Though it’s not the town square they’re about; it’s the medium density mixed-use housing.

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    Yeah, no. This looks absolutely miserable. Everyone speaks highly of cities, but why do you want to be so close to your neighbors? Why do you want to constantly be in large crowds? I want to be so removed that I have to drive 20 minutes to see another person.