I hope so, but oh I fuckin doubt it.
I wish them the best though
My parents made the choice to live farther from the rest of the clan 20 years ago and it was a good decision. Today, everyone over there is at each other’s throats or not on speaking terms. Us on the otherhand, they all love us. Not because we’re great or anything, but because we have zero drama with anyone.
Oh, I’m that aunt. My family sucks. But my niece contacted me yesterday since I’m moving to where I grew up. I know my fam is a bunch of asshats and she asked me if I could take her to a concert. My idiot sister would not allow her to go. I asked my niece: Which bands would you like to see? SOA & The darkness. Immediately booked 4 tickets for those and another 2 for moon hooch. Fuck people who don’t allow you listening to music.
I’m having that problem with my niece now, she thinks Pokemon are cool. She’s not allowed to play the games or watch the show because my brother thinks they’re satanic.
That’s what my mother thought back in the 90s for a year until she gave up. I know no one wants to hear it, but that was 30 years ago.
Your brother is either an old person from the 60s, or their church is a cult.
In my case, it’s a defo a cult. I walked out of there when I was 15 years old, never looked back, and became a musician.
Sweet Tap-dancing Jesus Christ on a pogo-stick, it’s 2024 and these people are still going on about it.
Holy hell! I deeply hope you punch that gobshite in the nose at some point. Seriously, wtf?
I wish I had a cool aunt like you when I was a kid.
Aw, you’re too kind :)
I am that uncle. Both my close and extended family are really nice, like better than any other I’ve ever met, but I just can’t handle all the social stuff. Most of them understand and we all like each other, but I still feel bad about it and it kinda sucks being the one that’s mostly outside of the “bubble”.
Word.
I’m that uncle. I hope one day my nephews reach out to me without their mother/my sister’s toxic involvement, but so far, she’s just to be involved in every relationship she can to sabotage it.
As an Uncle Brian who keeps his distance… I hope my niblings make this realization sooner rather than later.
I’m that uncle
Edit: I also have that uncle. He’s biracial and I’m queer just to give you an idea.
Or cousins, they were the “bad children.” I’m so lucky to have had friends
You guys have families?
I left my family years ago, but its mostly because I’m the fuckup everyone looks down on. Im tired of being lowest in the family.
I’m that guy. I’m the one that rarely likes to be around their family. Always drama, always finger pointing, and always me having to defuse the situation. Feels like work.
I dunno, that aunt and uncle keep their distance because they’re hard republicans and my family are all at the most conservative capable of existing in a socialist space without fearing being struck down by God
I don’t see myself suddenly becoming only barely not so right wing that it’s only a question if I’m voting for Trump
My whole family is this way. For the most part we all recognize that you can live your life and not communicate every day, week, or month and still be okay with a person. We are great at picking up where we left off we just all have our own lives and that’s okay.
It still feels strange to me when friends contact their parents daily or weekly and say their parents etc. Get upset for not contacting them frequently enough. I understand that’s the way their relationship works but maybe my family is the odd duck Lmao
That’s great you can have that dynamic with your family and that it’s healthy for all of you. I feel like it’s healthy for me, but my own fam is in the category of “getting upset for not contacting them frequently enough”. It’s like they take it personally that I can live my life but not need to be up to date on every moment of theirs.
That said, I’ve found that the only progress I’ve made is by beginning to draw boundaries and trying to be consistent at keeping them. It’s not a wonderful dynamic, but more distance has certainly made it healthier for me.
I’m like that with my extended family.
In my 20s, every time I checked in, it was some drama. Uncle did this to aunt. Cousin went to jail. Dad lost something valuable.
Things I had zero ways of helping since I was hundreds of miles away.
At some point, I stopped and I became a lot happier.
