• YappyMonotheist@lemmy.worldBanned from community
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    9 months ago

    It’s just nonsense for people who are too asocial and alien to the human experience to make sense of the world and feel better about themselves by having some sort of binary ‘strict goals’. You’re supposed to be somewhere ‘in the middle’ for best results: kind but not a doormat, confident but not arrogant, engaging but not domineering, etc etc.

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    9 months ago

    I think “alpha” males appear naturally in some species, but not in wolves and definitely not in hominids, lol.

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      9 months ago

      Silverback gorilla has entered the chat

      Apparently there’s some disagreement about whether any of the other modern great apes should be included in the “hominid” definition, though.

  • Mulligrubs@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    Alpha means “first”, it does not mean “wolf who fights other wolves while in captivity according to one study.”

    Do people not know this?

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        9 months ago

        I’m right still, you are wrong! Alpha is not problematic in any way. It’s in the Bible (the best selling book on Earth, at least at one time), it’s used in pop culture while not referring to the study in any way. So now annoying people use “alpha” just like “king” and “prince” and “the best” and “the greatest”.

        You’ll all get over it soon, as usual. I promise.

        p.s as per your question, yes I do know of it, as stated in my post that you responded to. I’m sorry that referring to it was an inadequate indicator that I knew of it, so I’m guessing your question is a joke? I mean, it’s obvious.

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      9 months ago

      I guess. I was able to engage in real conversation on Reddit and still do here, sounds like you’ve not really trying.

  • shalafi@lemmy.worldBanned
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    I know, not scientifically real, but you have to admit, there are in fact alpha and beta folks in the human population, both men and women. We used to call them type A and type B personalities, same difference.

    Anyway, I’m in some kinda weird half-and-half place. :) “On the spectrum”, if you will. Dominant in some ways, but not enough to stomp people out of my way, empathetic enough to be seen as a “good guy”. Whatever. I’m just happy I didn’t land on either far side. Can you imagine being a wuss and having dreams of “alpha”? The mind recoils.